Cat Lover Wedding Must-Haves

It really was a matter of time that this roundup would happen because, well, cats. And any crazy cat lady knows that feeling. It's not just a love, it's a fandom-probably-obsession. We just love, love, love those finicky, adorable, whiskery, purrsonality-filled creatures! So why not have a roundup of the best wedding trinkets and goodies paying homage to the world's best animal ever, especially after we did an entire bridal shower inspiration shoot around them?

So next up in our Favorite Things series, you're sure to go pin crazy with these feline-friendly details! From chic cat ring pillows to kitty cake toppers, we're including a little bit of everything when it comes to your purrfect wedding day. [updated may 2023]

The Tiny Boutonniere Cat Charm

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Men love their kittens, too! Like this real stylish groom, he gave a little nod to his cat through a little charm sewn onto his beautiful boutonniere.

Photography: Chelsea LaVere Barton // Florals: Palette of Petals // Silver Cat Charm: Silver Cat Charms via Etsy

The Cat Wax Seals

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Love Old World touches? These real wax cat-embossed seals are a must-have on your wedding invitations! Just peel and stick and make someone smile when they open up their mailboxes. Because we all need a little special kitty delivery in our lives.

Cat Wax Seals for Wedding Invitations: Venus Envy Paper via Etsy (no longer available, see other cat wax seals instead)

The Fancy Cat Collar

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If your kitty is one of those unconventional felines who is totally loud and proud when it comes to his cattitude in public, you might actually get to have him on your wedding day! And if so, this fancy cat collar takes him from tom cat to Mr. Tom in two seconds flat.

Fancy Cat Pointed Collar: The Rover Boutique via Etsy (no longer available, but see other fancy cat collars instead)

The Playful Cat Placecard Holders

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What better way to include kitty through some quirky wedding placecard holders? Your guests will not be surprised in the least when they see this super cute detail waiting for them at their tables!

Gold Cat Placecard Holders: Unconventional J via Etsy (no longer available, but see other cat placecard holders instead)

The Cat Shaped Bridesmaid Necklace

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Give your ladies an adorable yet modern chic way to bring kitty into the wedding day! Or if you have another theme, these ceramic cuties are purrfect for a great cat-inspired bridal shower!

Cat Shaped Bridesmaid Necklace: Pottery Lodge via Etsy (no longer available, but see other cat-shaped necklaces instead)

The Cat Cake Topper

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Beautifully unique, these handmade chalkware figures are the purrfect cake decorations for any kitty lovin' couple!

Photography: Sarah Street Photography // Coordination: Sunkissed Events // Cake: Make Life Sweet // Custom Black Cat Cake Topper: Mod and Mint via Etsy (no longer available, but see other cat wedding cake toppers instead)

The Wooden Cat Cufflinks

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Not even going to lie... cat dads and crazy cat guys make me all goobly-swoon inside. And any groom or groomsman spotted donning these walnut beauties should be warned. They have been known to attract crazy cat ladies and gents, and they may result in unavoidable iPhone photo sharing of furbabies at home.

Wooden Cat Cufflinks: The Laser Co via Etsy (no longer available, see other wooden cat cuff links instead)

The Cat Ring Bearer Pillow

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For rustic brides and grooms, this woodland-inspired cat ring pillow is simply amazing. If you can't have Kitty walking you down the aisle, this is definitely the next best thing.

Woodland Inspired Cat Ring Pillow: MosMea via Etsy

The Illustrated Cat Brides Wedding Card

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Known for his whimsical cat illustrations and prints, Jamie Shelman has a card and print for every occasion. So if you're a greeting card lover, her wide selection of cats, cats, cats is diverse and guaranteed to be well-loved by any engaged couple.

Illustrated Cat Wedding Card: Jamie Shelman via Etsy (no longer available, see other cat wedding cards instead)

The Monogrammed Kitty Ring Dish

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Ring dishes have been around for centuries, but these whimsical modern ones shaped like cat heads are a fab detail to keep your trinkets in on the wedding day and after!

Monogrammed Cat Ring Dish: Pottery Lodge via Etsy (no longer available, see other personalized cat ring dishes instead)

Need more to satisfy your inner crazy cat lady? Don't forget to check out our Modern Cat Bridal Shower Inspiration, How to Include Your Cat in the Wedding, and of course, our favorite Pinterest board: It's a Nice Day for a Cat Wedding.

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